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Those who are Paralysed by Betrayal...
THINK
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"I can't believe they betrayed me"
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"I can't fix this"
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"I don't know what happens next."
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"I can't focus at work"
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"I thought we were a team"
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"I've failed"
FEEL
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Resentment
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Tired
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Anger
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Frustration
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Undervalued
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Shame
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Fear
BEHAVE
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Snapping at the kids
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Complaining to friends​
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Over drinking or Over eating
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Little patience with myself or others
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Ignore problems and hope they just go away
WHICH RESULTS IN
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Not spending quality time with friends or loved ones
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Struggling to communicate with my partner
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Not looking after myself
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Spiralling out of control
Those who complete the
On Purpose Coaching Program
can expect to...
THINK
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"I'm not defined by my actions"
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"I can fix anything!"
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"I'm so proud of my myself"
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"I always have my own back"
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"I've already won, lets continue the journey"
FEEL
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Joy
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Confident
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Trusting
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Love
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Motivated
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Peaceful
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Forgiving
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Compassionate
BEHAVE
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Communicate with ease
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Laugh with friends​
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Eat well and still enjoy a treat
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Be understanding and patient with others
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Overcome obstacles and thrive
GET RESULTS LIKE
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Create a solid future for myself
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Let one chapter to close and a new one to begin
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Put myself first, from which all my relationships will benefit
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Have clear boundaries and confidence in my relationships
It's truly possible to go
FROM
​Doubting yourself
Confusion
Stressed & Anxious
Feeling Tense & Criticised
Agitated & Chaotic
Reactive
Resentful & Afraid
Overwhelm
Unforgiving & Vengeful
Unnoticed
Distrustful & paranoid
TO
Confident & Assured
Certainty
Relaxed & Calm
Safe & Self Praise
Calm & Predictable
Reflective & Compassionate
Accepting & Understanding
Taking one step at a time
Forgiving and at peace
Acknowledged
Trusting & Certain
"Don't just take my word for it"
CHANGE IS HAPPENING
Luke has helped me immensely in managing my infidelity trauma. He brings a fresh perspective and one that I've found to be very impactful. I can't put a price on the value of his program because it's allowed me to break free of the up and down emotional cycles that were putting my marriage in jeopardy. I'd recommend Luke's coaching program without hesitation to anyone dealing with infidelity trauma.
MIKE / TX, USA
"Here is what others have said"
“I fell into a dark place in my life when I found out my spouse of eight years was having an affair. I was lost, angry, vengeful; you name the emotion, I was going through it. I struggled with all these emotions going through my mind and didn`t know how to handle it. I stumbled on a podcast by Luke that offered a different perspective on an affair, so I thought to reach out to him; it was the best decision I ever made. In addition to helping me get unstuck from my funk, he helped me see things differently.
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I left a much better person. Ironically, I now see the affair to be one of the best things that ever happened to me because it opened my eyes to lots of other things about me that I didn’t know about myself. Even though I chose not to stay in the relationship, I am happier, a much better father and co-parenting partner with my ex. I like Luke’s approach to coaching because it focused on my development as a person and not so much on the affair itself. If you want to learn skills to help you be at peace with yourself, seek out Luke”
REMI / USA
"When I found Luke, I was completely consumed by the aftermath of my husband’s affair. I had been happily married for 25 years and the affair came to me as
a complete shock.
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I spent all of my time bouncing between the feelings of anger, uncertainty, disbelief, fear, and grief. I was stuck, and the therapist I started seeing wasn’t giving me the tools I needed to move forward in my healing process.
Luke made sure we focused on what I wanted to work on in my time with him. He was able to give me the tools I needed to deal with the intense emotions I was experiencing, and he also helped me to look at almost everything that happened from a different perspective. I loved how he gave me weekly re-caps from our sessions so I could easily revisit his suggestions and observations when I was losing focus.
Luke was also very encouraging when I felt like I wasn’t making the
progress I thought I should be.
I now feel confident in myself and my ability to heal from the nightmare of infidelity."
BETH / USA
"When I suddenly became aware of my wife’s infidelity, I quickly realized that I needed someone to help me deal with it. I tried talking to a couple of friends, but they weren't all that helpful. I was having a lot of trouble, I couldn't sleep well, I had trouble working, and I was a mess initially. Luckily, I ran across Luke and am quite happy I made the decision to have him help me.
I needed clarity to make some very important decisions, one of which was whether I could deal with my wife’s infidelity, or should I divorce her. Luke was able to successfully help me navigate a very tough journey; he helped me see things from a fresh perspective and learn how to deal with a reality that I was forced to have to come to terms with. Luke helped me "get off the fence". He then helped me move forward through the very emotional part of the divorce process.
I believe I got through it much faster, less painfully than what would have happened without his help. I would certainly recommend him to others dealing with infidelity."
JOHN / KS, USA
Hi, I'm Luke, and we might just have a few things in common.
I'm a 40-something father of two, and running, problem-solving, and creating things are part of who I am. I'm also a relationship coach & podcast host specialising in infidelity recovery.
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Life rarely goes as intended. Just a few years ago, I had a seemingly perfect marriage—content, in love, and raising a beautiful family. But everything changed when my wife cheated. I lost my home, no longer lived with my children, and the security of my job wasn’t what it was.
During this painful time, I deepened my existing interest in human psychology, searching for answers to questions like, ‘Why do people do what they do?’ I rebuilt my life, healing from the pain of infidelity and finding inner strength. Now, as a certified relationship coach, I'm dedicated to helping others on their recovery journeys.
Whether you're a betrayed partner seeking support, a spouse grappling with guilt, or someone rebuilding your life after infidelity, I provide a nonjudgmental space, practical tools, and powerful coaching. Together, we'll navigate emotions, rebuild trust, and create a future aligned with your values.
Take the first step towards reclaiming your life. Healing is possible, and I'm living proof, and I’m here to support you.
Remember, you're not alone.
Luke
AFTER
THE
AFFAIR
Certifications
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Professional Certified Coach - The Life Coach School
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CPD Life Coach - (Level 7 Diploma)
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QPR Gatekeeper Suicide Prevention Certificate
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Trauma-Informed Coach - The Centre for Healing
