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You probably never expected to be here but I can promise that if your partner has been unfaithful then you are in the right place.

Stay or leave, I help men just like you
rebuild trust, put what's most important to them first and take control in their relationships with conviction and clarity.

 


       

'the infidelity coach for men'

I'm Luke...

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Hurts like hell? I get it!

“I feel like I’m the villain in this story, yet she cheated on me!”

"I've been completely abandoned after the affair”

“I’ve wasted the last 10 years of my life”

"It's not the same anymore, I'm so angry. I feel stuck!"

“How did I miss the signs?”

“Why wasn’t I good enough?”

“She can see how much I’m hurting, yet she isn’t fixing it.”

“She should be feeling this pain, not me.”

“There is such a lack of empathy from my unfaithful partner.”

“My partner isn't communicating anymore. I feel so alone”

How many apply to you?

If just one of the above applies, you are not alone ...

It's only natural to feel this way

Why?

THINKING

"I can't believe she betrayed me"

"I can't fix this"

"I don't know what happens next."

"I can't focus at work"

"I thought we were a team"

"I've failed"

FEELING

  • Resentment

  • Tired

  • Anger

  • Frustration

  • Undervalued

  • Shame

  • Fear

BEHAVING

  • Snapping at the kids

  • Complaining to friends​

 

  • Over drinking or Over eating

 

  • Little patience with myself or others

  • Ignore problems and hope they just go away

RESULTs

I am not spending quality time with my kids 

I can't communicate with her

I am not looking after myself

I am spiralling out of control

It's truly possible to go 

FROM

​Doubting yourself 

Confusion

Stressed & Anxious

Feeling Tense & Criticised

Agitated & Chaotic

Reactive

Resentful & Afraid

Overwhelm

Unforgiving & Vengeful

Unnoticed 

Distrustful & paranoid 

TO

Confident & Assured

Certainty

Relaxed & Calm

Safe & Self Praise

Calm & Predictable

Reflective & Compassionate

Accepting & Understanding

Taking one step at a time

Forgiving and at peace

Acknowledged 

Trusting & Certain 

Infidelity does not define you!

How?